Lotsa Flies

Soares Clan news and views; A continuation of Two Flies. Hoo Ha.

Wednesday, November 21, 2007

Suzy Covey Comic Book Collection (Bill)

The news of the moment is yesterday's annoucement from my boss (below) that the UF Libraries comics collection has been named in Suzy's honor.

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I am very pleased to announce that the comic book collection has been officially named the Suzy Covey Comic Book Collection to honor Suzy’s dedicated service to the George A. Smathers Libraries. Her volunteer commitment to this collection was a testament to her generosity of spirit and it is only fitting that this wonderful collection be named for her.

The web pages that describe the collection, such as http://www.uflib.ufl.edu/spec/belknap/comics/comics.htm, will be [have been] modified to reflect the name of the collection and will link to a page providing information about Suzy. A comic book exhibit and dedication ceremony will take place in March 2008. I hope you will join us in celebrating Suzy’s life and viewing some of the outstanding items in the collection.

The Suzy Covey Comic Book Fund has also been established to honor Suzy by supporting the collection. Your gift to the fund will honor her memory as a friend, colleague and librarian. When the fund balance reaches $30,000, it will become an endowment that will sustain and expand the collection that she cared for so lovingly. If you wish to make a contribution, please make your check payable to the University of Florida Foundation, Inc., and note the Suzy Covey Fund in the memo field. Contributions can be mailed to the Office of Development, George A. Smathers Libraries, P. O. Box 117001, Gainesville, FL 32611.

Judy

Judith C. Russell
Dean of University Libraries

Tuesday, November 20, 2007

Suzy, by Bill

Here is Bill's eulogy for Suzy, delivered at her memorial service on October 27, 2007:

Welcome to Suzy's 68th birthday. What I would like to do is tell you about my version of the “Essential Suzy”, show you some of the things that are fundamental to her magic. I do not pretend that these glimpses do her richness justice, but the perspective I was privileged to have may help all of us as we try to cope with what we now face.
That perspective had its beginnings in the summer of 1985, when I was first hired to work as a systems analyst for the Libraries. Suzy was on the search committee. Those were the days in which we interviewed almost everyone even more intensely than we do now (if you can believe that). As the supervisor of two programmers, one of whom was on loan to FCLA, even my lowly position was interviewed for more than a day. Neither of us knew at the time where the result of that job search would lead us. Amid the myriad of people who blurred before me in that whirlwind process, my primary image of Suzy was “Nice legs” .
It didn't take long to learn there was a great deal more to appreciate. Shortly after I arrived, I helped her debug a small problem in her current programming project. Not too long after that, we came to better understand each other's skills when we ended up on the same group during one of the insipid ARL OMS workshops that were popular in the mid-80s. The relationship remained mostly professional until almost twenty years ago, the point at which, as Suzy always put it, “we became we.” Once it happened, we remained we, until the horrible night this month when she slipped away, the victim of the sudden massive bleeding which destroyed her brain.
Between those times, we were together almost constantly. I attended several ALA events with her, and I shunned travel which didn't include her. We came in to campus together, ate lunch together, bought a house and built a household. In the summer of 2001, she finally consented to wear my ring, and we were married in a small destination wedding at Bayfield, Wisconsin.
These are bits of history, but they don't tell you much about her. Here are some of the views of her essence which I think she would be glad to have stay in our memories.
Suzy loved novelty. She liked technology, but I have always believed that the true interest behind that was her love of new things in general. For example, she very much wanted to be one of the first tourists in space, and would have gladly risked almost anything to have that novel experience.
The quest for novelty in everyday life took her to a love of the study of popular culture and mass media. A member of the Popular Culture Association, Suzy always wanted to know what the next great trend would be. She frequently caught the wave before most people detected a ripple. She was captivated by the number puzzle Sudoku long before it became cool. She was one of the very earliest users of Tivo, the programmable video recorder, and had to constantly schedule viewing time to try to keep enough space cleared on the machine to capture her next targets. She wanted to experience it all.
She also loved many aspects of popular culture on a personal level. Her childhood love of comics led her to both collect those comics, and to work with comics of all types professionally. She pioneered in extending and developing Comics Markup Language as a tool for making both the text and graphic content of comics searchable online. She spent a lot of time in Special Collections, especially after she retired, working on organizing the Libraries comics collection. She became a major fan of Neil Gaiman and his graphic novels, particularly the Sandman series, on which she presented conference papers.
Suzy loved music. She had perfect pitch, and deeply understood music long before she studied it formally. She once told me that one of the most joyful moments of her life came when she learned that all of her friends, the musical notes, actually had names and identities. She had an undergraduate degree in music from UC Berkley (her beloved Cal), and she had musical instruments and recordings with her constantly. One of the highlights of her life was when she played in a rock band while a librarian at Johns Hopkins. That group was a caveman sendup of Bruce Springsteen, entitled Bruce Springstone. The visual theme was the Flintstones, with Fred as the Bruce avatar / frontman. Suzy played keyboards, and in the video the group produced was clad only in a scant fur dress and a lot of makeup. She was very proud of that role, which she termed Cave Whore. The group has the distinction to this day of having produced the single that has been played more than any other on radio: Take Me Out to the Ballgame, which is how that music found its way here.
Suzy was a fan. Very few earned her fandom, but if you ever managed to attain that glorious status, her loyalty was unconditional and unending. The only real enmity I ever saw her express was when she thought someone was being evil to me or someone else in her circle of devotion.
The fan and the music came together in her love of the work of Bruce Springsteen. She had attended literally dozens of his concerts, sometimes traveling across the country to see one more show of a tour she had already seen more than once. She liked everything he did, defending his numerous stylistic changes from cretins like me who thought The Boss should stick to being The Boss.
She loved books, and she loved the concept of a library. She believed in the goodness of the library mission, and she combined those feelings with her love of novelty to produce a never ending quest for new things to do in the library. She was one of the prime movers in the Florida Union List of Serials project (FULS, pronounced fools), and when its leadership was taking it in a potentially disastrous direction, she combined forces with Barbara Oliver to get it finished and keep everyone out of jail. She started with the UF Libraries as an LTA in serials. She went to library school at FSU to improve her professional prospects, only to return to a job as a serials librarian here that paid less than she would have been making had she not gone to school. A bit later, her personal life led her out on what she called the great year-long camping trip, where she traveled across the country in a van on what might best be called a spirit quest. She ended that saga, and worked in several other academic libraries before returning to UF.
She was fascinated when SOLINET came out with their modified IBM PC computers as dedicated cataloging workstations. She combined her OCLC user skills with her desire to learn to use the new technology to produce the only software the Libraries have ever had widely distributed: How to Search OCLC. This program was a combination of tutorial and game, designed by Suzy and programmed by a student assistant working with her. It was widely used in the English speaking world, with shipments to several countries outside the US. She later went on to be the sole progammer and developer for CyberLib, the pre-Web, multi-user mainframe tool that organized the mass of professional email lists into a single archival reference source that was widely used here.
Suzy hated waste, which she pretty much defined as anything that needed to be discarded. Even things which she agreed were pure trash, things like bottle caps and popsicle sticks and old food in the fridge, cause her pain to throw away. I could help her with those things, but in other areas it was more difficult. She had that pack rat condition common among library denizens, which led her to accumulate things. The collector combined with a love of the library concept and a hatred for using a shared library herself led her to build a massive personal library. This is one of the places where our weaknesses reinforced each other to our peril: the house is overrun with our books.
Suzy was totally nonreligious, and yet completely spiritual. She was totally understanding and supportive of my unorthodox religious beliefs, but had no interest at all in taking them up herself. She incorporated them into our wedding, and emerged unchanged. Suzy was a golden child of the universe, a person so in touch with the ultimate godhead that she simply didn't need any intermediaries to guide her way.
Spirituality notwithstanding, Suzy was supremely sensual. She loved good food, and good wine, and .... things sensual.
Overall, the way we lived was very much in touch with our inner Peter Pan, adult in body, but quietly indulgent of ourselves. Think of it as the Boxcar Children with too much money. Suzy was an experienced innocent. Her innocence was not the naive uninformed state of childhood, but a refusal to embrace cynicism, despite understanding the problems in the world. She never let herself become corrupted enough to understand politics, even though she was fascinated to see political intrigue unfold. Interpreting that for her was one of my jobs.
In exchange for political analysis, Suzy gave me far greater gifts, the most unlikely being coffee, cats, and baseball. I was never much of a coffee drinker until Suzy. She introduced me to the joys of fresh hand ground, brewed with a Melita cone, and I quickly joined her in her love of it. I never made it to her level of addiction, though. She was totally non-functional in the morning until that first cup found its way into her being. This caused her something of a dilemma when she lived alone: how do you make that first cup fresh when you do not know which planet you are standing on? The answer for the last twenty years has been that my morning routine begins with the grinding and boiling and brewing, so that she only needed to awaken enough to swallow.
She gave me cats shortly after we bought the house. Our neighbors had around a dozen, and one young one boldly came every morning to visit at our backdoor. This cat, whose orange forehead blaze lead Suzy to name Carrot, needs more human attention than is available in a house full of cats, and slowly came to spend most of her time with us. The neighbors left, but Carrot is still here.
The thing this tells you about Suzy is that in her supremely gentle way, she led me (then a cat disliker if not cat hater) to understand what wonderful creatures really great cats are. She never objected to letting the almost kitten come in to live, accepting the inevitable small damages that occur as cat and household come to know each other. She nurtured my relationship with Carrot until we bonded. She did this a lot, getting me to first tolerate and then come to deeply appreciate things I thought I could do without. Baseball was something I regarded as a boring waste of time, until she patiently explained the game, how to keep a box score, and how her baseball fandom belonged to the Orioles and Cal Ripken.
A final glimpse of the mysterious essential Suzy. After she saw the movie Raging Bull, she wanted to be a boxer. She never actually did any boxing or training to box, and although I am sure this is highly significant to understanding her, I to this day have not a clue as to what it means.
All of this is only a series of snapshots into an amazing life. The totality of experiencing her is beyond anything I can begin to express in words. The blessing of our time together is the greatest happiness I have ever known. Rock on, Miss Suzy.

Sunday, October 28, 2007

A Celebration of a Life

As most of you "flies on the wall" must know, Suzy passed away on October 17, 2007 following a masive stroke suffered on October 8. Yesterday, on what would have been her 68th birthday, a memorial was held for her at the Smathers Library. What follows are remarks I made at this event.

This is a memorial for my sister Suzy, and as such it is a fitting time and place to share memories of her. It is also very fitting that it's being held in a library building, since books, reading and writing were such a big part of her life. Today, I am going to try to share with you some of my memories of Suzy.

Suzy always referred to me as her baby brother, and the reason for this is obvious from this picture. Both Suzy and our sister Sandy were enough older than me, that it was sometimes said of me: "poor kid: he has three mothers!" But I didn't feel that way – she was just my big sister.


As you can see, Suzy was much closer in age to Sandy, and I think they were sometimes mistaken for twins. They did many things together, besides just babysitting me. One early passion for them was tennis.

We lived in California, and one time when mom had taken the three of us to Palo Alto so the girls could play tennis, Suzy and Sandy played a trick on me. When they were through playing, they called mom to come pick us up from the tennis courts. They then told me that they magically knew exactly where she was, street by street, on the 10 mile route from home to Palo Alto. I became convinced that they were telling the truth when they accurately indicated exactly when mom turned onto the street that the tennis courts were on. It was only later that I figured out that they merely saw her make the turn before I did, and just made everything else up!

There was a very special period for me during those California years, when Suzy was back living at home after her first two years at college in Missouri. Sandy was away at the same college, so it was the first time that Suzy and I spent a lot of time together, just the two of us. I remember her teaching me to play pinochle, and listening to classical music with her on the radio.

I guess it's fair to say that a person's life can be described by their passions. I know Suzy had a lot of them, and I'll try to say a few words about some of them, in approximately chronological form. First, her passion was for books and reading. And probably at this time her love of comics began, which she shared with Sandy and our father, shown here reading them in the paper. In California a friend of Suzy's gave me a small car-load of Walt Disney's comics, which I merely enjoyed reading. For Suzy and Sandy, however, it was the start of a lifelong, serious hobby of collecting comic books.
Another passion of Suzy's was for music, particularly the piano, although she played other instruments as well. I remember that she even did some original composition for the piano. A third interest was in languages, and she even studied and took a degree in Russian, which was to be very useful for her when she became a librarian. I shared the interest in Russian at that time, but only to the extent that I learned to transliterate the alphabet into Cyrillic characters. I wrote her strange looking letters using this transliteration.

In the 60's the family started to spread out. My parents and I moved to Maryland and then to Virginia, while Suzy came to Gainesville for her first sojourn in what she always referred to as "the Swamp". Sandy joined her here a few years later, and then in 1969 I did as well, so that for a few years the three of us were all here together. There were great times for and great dinners. In the 70's there was more movement: Suzy left Gainesville and ended up in La Crosse, Wisconsin, at about the same time that Sandy took a job in River Falls, Wisconsin, where she has been ever since. In 1975, I left Gainesville for Maryland, where I have lived ever since.

In La Crosse, Suzy found new passions, such as geography and mapmaking, but most importantly Bruce Springsteen. She became a devoted fan of his, and has attended countless of his concerts over the years. In 1979 Suzy left La Crosse to move in with me in Maryland to try writing full time.
Gosh, we had a great time living together, and besides writing Suzy became enthused with weather, particularly the snow and ice that we have in northern Maryland. You'll have to take my word that this is her playing in the snow. We lived in the woods and one particularly noteworthy weather event was an early October snow, which fell wet and heavy on the still fully leafed-out trees. Suzy and I took a walk in the woods during this storm, which was probably really crazy, since tree limbs were breaking and falling all around us, sounding like shots on a battlefield as they broke, and making tremendous crashes as they fell.


In gentler seasons Suzy was an enthusiastic gardener, and one of the things she planted was this herb garden. One result of this particular herb garden is that the area where we gardened is now overrun with a somewhat noxious herb that she planted, which has done a particularly good job reseeding itself over the last 25 years. Thanks, Suzy...


We also grew lots of vegetables such as those pictured here. Particularly memorable were the hot peppers, which we used to judge for hotness in taste-offs by putting them on nachos. I wasn't much into hot peppers and spicy food until then, but since then I've never stopped loving them.

But her greatest passion during these years was for baseball and the Baltimore Orioles. They almost won the World Series in 1979 and remained strong for several years after that. Suzy resumed her library career in 1981, taking a job at Johns Hopkins and moving to Baltimore, where she was still close enough to come visit me and garden on the weekends. Where she lived was only a few blocks from Memorial Stadium, where the Orioles played then, and the year that the Orioles won the World Series, 1983, we went to dozens of games together with her Hopkins friends. It was Cal Ripkin's rookie year, and we saw some truly incredible, unforgettable games.

While living in Baltimore she also got involved with the group that recorded the Bruce Springstone song(s) that you've heard (or will hear). I was privileged to actually attend a live performance of the group singing both of the songs they recorded, "Meet the Flintstones" and "Take Me Out to the Ballgame". Suzy looked really cute on-stage in her Flintstones stone-age outfit.

Another passion of Suzy's which emerged during this time in Maryland involved computing, especially related to library science. Being a physicist, I am also quite interested in computing, and I am proud to say that I gave Suzy her introduction to "personal" computing as it was known in those early days. This mixture of computers and libraries was to remain a constant in her life ever after.
During this time she was also able to visit Europe for the first time, and conceived a passion for Italy.

Well, the rest of the story you all know pretty well. They say that once you get sand in your shoes in Gainesville, you have to come back, and evidently Suzy got sand in her shoes, because she did. And here she finally found true happiness with Bill. And with library computing, and most recently computer-aided comics scholarship. Always an indefatigable correspondent, the modern age of emails, blogs and text messaging was perfect for Suzy to continue her passion for writing. Several years ago she began a blog, which she managed to get my mother and then the rest of the family interested in contributing to, or at least monitoring. This single feat has brought our family closer together than at any time since we left California.
Well, here we are all, the last time the family was all together, at Suzy and Bill's wedding. A big surprise for all of us in recent years is Suzy developing an interest in cooking, and making some very creative dishes for her, Bill and their cat Carrot. My mom still remembers when, back in California, Suzy said "I'll never cook and clean for any man!". However, Suzy ended up doing just that, and this was a true measure of her love for Bill. As only she could, Suzy regaled us daily in her blog with her cooking escapades.

So finally, looking at this picture, you might ask, did we always get along? The answer is a resounding "yes!!". Suzy is shown here at her finest, among the wreckage of a Maryland blue crab feast. This is the way I always will remember her: happy, passionate, and funny. She was my sister, and I love her and I always will.

At the memorial, the following information was made available:
To honor Suzy Covey's dedicated service to the George A. Smathers Libraries, you are invited to make a gift to the Suzy Covey Comic Book Collection Fund. Suzy's volunteer commitment to this collection was a testament to her generosity of spirit. Your gift will sustain her memory as a friend, colleague and librarian.

Please make checks payable to the University of Florida Foundation, Inc. Note the "Suzy Covey Fund" in the memo field. Mail to the Office of Development, George A. Smathers Libraries. PO Box 117001, Gainesville, FL 32601.

Monday, October 08, 2007

Big 9-0

Gainesville

I'm way too strung out on sports (13 straight hours) to compose a reasonable blog, but just had to be the first (maybe) to say:

Happy Birthday, Mom!

Big 9-0!

You Go, Girl!

And if I could figure out how to make the letters dance and sing, I would. Blogger does have its limits.

More suitable greetings to follow, but wanted you to know I'm thinking about you. Hope you find a way to have some fun today.

Sunday, October 07, 2007

West is West

Gainesville

So! The National League will be represented by an upstart, non-Cali western team, either the Arizona Diamondbacks or the Colorado Rockies. The snakes vs the mountains-- how cool is that? Most likely, the AL will be an old fart eastern team, unless the Angels pull off a stunning comeback-- and I hope they don't. Either Boston or Cleveland would be fine with me. ABY, don'cha know.

Another day of off-and-on violent thunderstorms and drenching rain. We snuck out between them to shop in the late afternoon. This allowed only minimal time to prepare food, so we dined on pre-fab frozen crab cakes (not half bad), fruit salad and a quick slaw from some chopped cabbage left over from last week. Somewhere in there I did a long overdue leftover purge and managed to fit the rescued containers into Mrs. Higgins.

Hope Chris and Kay arrived on schedule and in good shape. I do worry about them both. Look forward to hearing how the mini-vacation goes.

Picked up a bottle of Tanq at our local Ahpu's minimart liquor store. Mmmm. Tanq.

Put batteries in my desktop time & weather thingy. The temp is now a believable 73.4F. Recently it's been 23.5F, and yesterday, LL. That is the very least of my electronic media problems. Easy to solve.

Lesse, the clock sez it's 2:24 AM, so that translates into dog years as... LATE! Night, all.

Saturday, October 06, 2007

Buggy Baseball

Gainesville

Just to prove I'm still alive...

Drowning in post-season baseball. Staying up way too late to finish nailbiter games, then sleeping way too late to compensate.

Bill complained loud and long to Lowe's about the delayed delivery of the washer, and surprise! Miraculously, they were able to deliver one this morning! They arrived half an hour early, but I was up and ready. It went smoothly, and the new GE has been working nicely since. It has very high energy efficiency ratings, and seems quiet, if a bit slow. It has a window, which fascinates the cat. I remember our first Bendix and its window. I did three loads, and Bill did another when he got home, after a very weird day at work.

We skipped Outback last night, as it was raining, and I still had a meal ready to go from the night when we shopped for the washer. It rained again today, most of the day. I had to move Blue for the washer delivery, then realized how dusty he was with dirt and pollen from sitting in the carport, so left him parked outside for a good soaking rain bath. He looks much better.

You will not believe it, but our Christmas cards arrived today! I decided this year to let Bill pick the cards, when he (for the second year in a row) showed me some offerings from AOPA Air Safety, and went with his selection. Mom, I think you will like this particular card. If I have any sense at all, I will sit down and start addressing a few each day next week, and start drafting the canned letter. After all, it's nearly time for the FL Xmas Cruise.

Sandy, so awful that those beetles are back! I got a good sense of what a plague they are the last time I visited in the Fall. Did you see the Cleveland game tonight?! A hideous plague of gnat-like things drove both teams nearly mad. They were trying bug spray for relief, but turns out these demons go for moisture, even when it's poisonous to them, so the spray just made it worse! I've never seen a baseball game played under worse conditions. As Bill said, the game could easily have been won by a base on bugs.

I wish you a fine adventure with Chris and Kay, Mom. Sorry to hear he is still not quite recovered from his illness. Hopefully this vacation will prove restful for him. Good luck with the freezer excavations.

I have meals planned for next week, and since baseball doesn't resume again til 6:00, should have time to do the shopping tomorrow. Need to pick up gin! Tonight was reduced to drinking the last of the bottle of Bombay I got for Sandy during the UF conference. And I must say, with the magic olives, it tasted mighty fine. If I don't restock soon (like, tomorrow), I'll be down to the Gilbey's, and I have no doubt that, in time of need, it will taste mighty fine too.

And finally: Not only do I binge on re-reading, I binge on re-reading sequels! An about 1/3 into this guiltiest of guilty pleasures. However, I will NOT stay up all night reading this one. I swear. Honest. No way.

Friday, October 05, 2007

A little more time to pack

5.X.07 - MoM

This morning by about 10:30 finally I was putzing away and had all the many ingredients on the chopping block and ready to get the dinner prep done for when Chris and Kay would arrive at dinnertime tonight, when they called. They were in Indiana and about 10 hours away, so now they are planning on arriving by dinnertime tomorrow night. It seems that Chris is still recovering from his sick time and gets tired a lot quicker than he used to. They had told him it would take a while to get back to normal. So, I put the perishable stuff back and will start on it early tomorrow. I hope there will be enough time Sunday morning for Kay to find things in the large freezer for our meals there, as she had suggested. I hate to think of how old some of the stuff in there is. I made the pilgrimage down to it (one slightly tall step down) today hoping to find the good sized "basket" containing all kinds of nuts. I would like to have sliced or chopped almonds for the tomorrow's dinner entre, but since I could not find it, I may make do with pine nuts in the kitchen freezer. I probably don't really need them with all the other things.

Margaret Campbell called me today to wish me a happy birthday. I didn't tell her that she was a little early. She was anxious to see the pictures that Sandy had taken. There were several of Fred and I in "deep" conversation (I had him talking about his war experiences in the Pacific), and a picture of us with Margaret. She was sorry that she didn't have more of a chance to talk with him. I hadn't realized that her brother (Dan, the youngest Campbell kid) had fought in Montgomery's African invasion and in the Battle of the Bulge but he didn't want to talk about them. Margaret is the only "kid" of her family left, while Fred and I both have our only sib left alive.

I did get the clothing part of my packing done. Still have my computer/printer stuff and my odds and ends -- everything from meds and oodles of little stuff to pack. The list is detailed and extensive. It is nice to know the logistics of the condo and where things will go when I get there.

Although I had a couple of 15 minute naps, I am very, very sleepy. I am going to send and get to bed early. Then, I am going to really pour it on tomorrow so there won't be a lot for me to do on Sunday. I have sort of proofed this in bits and pieces, so I hope it isn't to bad.